Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Friday, October 13, 2006...

This is super long, sorry. I hope you enjoy the slide show these pictures start the day they were born and go up until we were discharged from the hospital!

Things had been pretty uneventful and I had been feeling pretty good. I woke up Friday morning to an empty house. I did my usual routine and quickly realized I was bleeding. I called my mom and she and Kelsey rushed home. Ryan was at the gym and we finally got a hold of him and he came home too. My mom called all of my family and let them know I was probably going to have the babies. We went to the hospital and they hooked me up to all the machines. I was having the same amount of contractions I had been when I had left 1 week earlier. The doctor checked me and I had not changed so he sent me home. I was so relieved. It was Aria's first birthday and I did not want to miss the party.

A couple of hours later I was laying on my bed in the family room when all of the sudden I moved and felt a gush of water. I couldn't decide if I wet my pants or if my water broke. It was the weirdest feeling ever. I called my mom and we gathered in the bathroom with Abbey, Kelsey and Ryan trying to determine if it was my water or not. I was not having any contractions so I was really unsure. My mom was positive it was my water. About 30 minutes later I suddenly started feeling very strong contractions. They got me on the couch and Kelsey started timing them on her cell phone, they were really close together. I was yelling for Ryan who was taking a timed quiz for school and kept saying, "I have to finish this it is timed." Abbey was saying, "Ryan I think your teacher will understand, your wife is in labor."

Chad and Ryan got me to the car and we headed to the hospital. When we got there they took one look at me and knew it was my water. They got me in a gown and into bed and the nurse came in to check me. I was at a 5. We got the anestheiologist and he gave me my epidural, it was heaven! The doctor came in and talked to us about a c-section. He was worried about baby B(Easton) because his heart rate was dropping and mine was starting to too. They put me on oxygen and we decided a c-section was our best option.

They got me all ready and got Ryan in his gear and took us away. The doctor pinched my arm and asked me if I could feel it and I said yes. He said, "good you were supposed to but your stomach is now cut open and I am assuming you didn't feel that." It was crazy laying there thinking I was going to soon have 2 babies. At 6:23 and 6:24 Brady and Easton were born. They got Brady out and I could hear him crying. I didn't even get to see him because as soon as he was out they put him in a blanket and ran into another room where I am told 5 doctors immediately started working on him. Easton followed 1 minute later and I again could hear crying. I later found out it was Brady I could still hear and Easton came out blue and not breathing but they didn't tell me that at the time, good thing. Pretty soon they started stitching me up and I was just laying there wishing I could hold my babies. They brought Brady in for 5 seconds and let me give him a kiss and then took him away. Easton was not doing as well so they took him straight to the NICU. My mom and dad went with the babies so Ryan could be with me.

They got me into a room and Ryan left again to go to the NICU. They wouldn't let me see my kids until I was more stable. It was torture and felt like an eternity. Finally after about 2 hours they wheeled me in on my stretcher and let me reach up and touch them. Brady was just chillin' but seeing Easton on all his machines terrified me. I can honestly say I have never been so scared in my entire life. I had these beautiful babies and I didn't even get to sit and spend time with them or hold them. They told me I could come back in the morning and took me away. I was devastated.

My family came to visit me that night and Ryan got to take them up one by one to see the kids. It was killing me to just be laying there not knowing what was going on. Ryan slept at the hospital with me but he was so exhausted he fell right asleep. I could not sleep and layed there watching TV and crying. My dad was luckily on call that night and came in to see me in the wee hours of the morning. He had just been up to see the boys and updated me on what was going on. He told me Easton was struggling a bit but they Brady was just laying there chillin' with his arms behind his head. I finally fell asleep.

The next morning I got to go and see my beautiful baby boys and hold them for the first time. It was the best feeling in the entire world. I was intimidated by how little they were and surprised at the love I immediately felt for them.

The next 4 weeks were an emotional rollercoaster. We had some crazy experiences such as a power outage, Brady stop breathing during a blessing, a bomb threat, emotional breakdowns, etc. but we made it through. Ryan basically dragged me out of the hospital every night cyring and I would call the NICU in the middle of the night when I would get up to pump just to hear that they were okay which they always were. It was a growing experience for us and my faith was definitely strengthened.

Now here we are 1 year later. My kids are now chubby and developing perfectly. It truly is a miracle that I was able to stay pregnant 4 extra weeks and that my kids did so well when they were born. We are so lucky to live in such a great place with such a wonderful hospital and fabulous staff. They were amazing! Even more than that we are lucky to have such supportive family and friends who came to visit often and were always willing to help us out. We could not have made it through without all of them.

So there it is, the conclusion of the story. Sorry the posts were so long and sometimes boring but it has been fun for me to write all of our experiences and ups and downs we went through to get my little guys here.

21 comments:

Heather said...

Hi Sarah & Ryan - don't know if you guys remember me or not. I am Kelly's friend (was a former mission companion and lived with Sue when I first moved here). Anyhoo, Kelly sent me the link to your webpage and I love seeing your cute babies! Your story of courage and faith along the long and tough journey to bring Brady and Eason here is inspiring and hearfelt. Thank you for sharing!!

Holley said...

I'm sitting here at work with tears streaming down my face. I'm crying from sheer gratitude to our Heavenly Father for all of the miracles He performed not just on Oct. 13 but all through your pregnancy. You and Ryan have an amazing little family! Love you!

Jules said...

You made me cry too. We McGiven women are such boobs. It's hard to believe a whole year has gone by. Looking at the boys now you'd never know they had such a tough start. Sarah you are a hero too. Love ya!

Lindsay Ercanbrack said...

What a crazy time that was! I'm so glad everything turned out so well and that your cute boys are healthy and happy today!

Jaime Stephens said...

Wow!!! You also made me cry I am sooo glad things all worked out like they did.. You are amazing and you have such a wonderful family I just don't know how you did it!!! I don't know really what else to say but WOW again and thanks for sharing all of that with us that was fun...

Sharon said...

Okay, so here I am all teary eyed too. Maybe it's because I just finished my last geology assignment! Anyway, I'm so thankful for your little guys and that they got here safe and sound. They are truly miracles.

Uffens Family said...

Ok, I did not even know you when you had Brady and Easton, but I too got teary eyed!
Thanks for sharing the fun pictures!
We miss you here in Henderson!!

Ashley said...

I don't even know you, and I'm sitting here crying! your babies are beautiful. I've been reading your blog for awhile, and I love it. :)

brittany said...

so this post was quite the tear jerker. I had tears welling up in my eyes as well. I am so happy they are healthy little guys. They sure are good little boys and very adorable.

Heather O'Brien said...

Thanks for the story Sarah. That is emotional! So glad they are doing well now. I won't lie, I will miss hearing the stories. Hope you guys are doing well.

Renee said...

I am sitting here sobbing. I remember those days all too well - it is amazing to see how far they have come. I will never foget the night your delivered and Ryan took me to the NICU to see the boys for the first time. I stood between their two incubators and sobbed. Seeing Easton on all the breathing machines made my heart break. I don't think I have ever prayed so hard in my whole life. You are an inspiration to all women Sarah - you are a wonderful mother! I am amazed at the strength of both you and Ryan. I am proud to call you my sister. Thanks for the slide show and the reminder that there are miracles!

Anonymous said...

I was getting worried about you because you haven't blogged in a few days! Brady and Easton are so cute in those pictures...I loved the story. Thanks for sharing.

Sarah Goodsell said...

Loved all the pics. You need to come back, you're missing out!

Katie said...

What a tear jerking story. Thanks for the recap and testimony. I remember Gary and I were celebrating our anniversary that weekend in SLC. We went to the temple the next morning (Oct. 14) and added your guys' names to the prayer role. I know I keep saying this but these really are our miracle babies....Heavenly Father has perfect timing. These little guys needed modern medicine. They have amazing spirits and will be awesome missionaries!

The Cecil's said...

I'm glad I'm not the only one who got emotional reading this! I was starting to blame it on the pregnancy hormones. What a miracle... I can't believe how little they were!

Chelsea said...

I was beginning to worry about you because it had been so long since you blogged and you blog practically every day. That was such a cool story. Thanks for sharing. How scary! But, that's so neat that everything turned out so great in the end.

Cami said...

Looking at Brady and Easton now, you would never guess they started out so small! Thanks for sharing your story and pictures!

Niki Carter said...

That was fun! I never heard all of the trauma! I would be so sad to not be able to hold my babies!! How early were they? You look so great sarah! You and Ryan are so cute together. I can't believe that he was taking a timed quiz! What a man! That sounds like something that my husband would do. It's like, hey, you want to come in here, we're about to have a baby!!! James asked me if he had time to do payroll at work when I was in labor! What retards! They should have to be in labor at least for a few minutes! Talk to you later. Nicole

Sarah said...

I love reading the story and seeing the pics. You have the cutest boys in the world, they are always happy, i love it!!

The Bucks said...

Wow what a blessing and what adorable kids!!! You guys are soo lucky and blessed!!

The Three Musketeers and their Mommy said...

Hey Sarah, it's Libby (Blanchard). How are you girl? And how is Ryan? That is awesome that he is going to be an occupational therapist. What a neat and much needed job! Sarah, that story about your precious baby boys was so touching! That would be so incredibly difficult! I am so happy that they are healthy and happy boys now! They are sooooo darling!!! I love their names too. It was so fun to find you and see your cute little family! I have a blog but it is for invited readers only. If you want, you can email me and I will send you an invite. It's not much but I guess it's better than nothing. libbyrobertson1@hotmail.com
It will be fun to stay in touch. By the way, you look beautiful. Take care!